Helping You and your Children through Life

If you’re interested in what Kepler is sharing with his family, he has written his contributions to the future of our country and is ready and willing to share it with you. Kepler has written “Raising Tomorrow”. Inside the book is 208 pages of wit (not wisdom. Remember no parent knows what they’re doing.) to help and inspire parents to talk to their children. As Kepler said to me, “Raising Tomorrow invites parents to slow down, sit with their kids, and start the kinds of meaningful conversations that actually shape character—and last a lifetime.”

Another school year is coming to a close. The Miracles of Christ are counting down the days to their freedom. I’m checking the liquor cabinet to make sure I have enough to see me through summer.

Stories and Lessons Abound

It’s been another year filled with exciting stories and life lessons. Some days have provided a little more excitement than I would like. Parenting isn’t easy. Any parent knows that, but sometimes Life feels the need to send us a little reminder from time to time.

I love when fellow Daddies and Mommies reach out to me with a little tidbit or anecdote. It’s nice to see who I’m in the boat with. You might also know there are people who reach out to me with their own collection of stories, products, and services. Sometimes it’s something that can make your life easy. Sometimes it’s something to enjoy with your own child or it can be something for a daddy or mommy to use and enjoy, something to give them a break for a moment or two on the parenting journey.

“Raising Tomorrow”

 Kepler Knott is a fellow participant on the parenting journey. I say this site has parenting humor, not advice. No one knows what they’re doing anyway. Kepler knows what I’m talking about. He, like other parents, knows how hard it is to raise children and guide them through the struggles and trials of life. Kepler talks to his daughters whenever he gets the chance. These chances could be when his daughters are coming to him with a problem or just when he has something to impart to them. Hopefully his children are listening to what he has to say. He has a lot to share that can help them in life.

Kepler Knott and his Book

Kepler Knott

If you’re interested in what Kepler is sharing with his family, he has written his contributions to the future of our country and is ready and willing to share it with you. Kepler has written “Raising Tomorrow”. Inside the book is 208 pages of wit (not wisdom. Remember no parent knows what they’re doing.) to help and inspire parents to talk to their children. As Kepler said to me, “Raising Tomorrow invites parents to slow down, sit with their kids, and start the kinds of meaningful conversations that actually shape character—and last a lifetime.”

… [T]hese days it seems we are all so worried with why and how we are different that we forget the things that make us alike and (should) hold us together.
– “Raising Tomorrow”

“Raising Tomorrow” is divided into 16 chapters. Each chapter focuses on a different part of life. Throughout the book, Kepler invites you to sit in on a conversation he is having with his daughters. His conversations cover just about everything you see, hear and read about. There is even a chapter titled “On Politics”. This important chapter doesn’t endorse or condemn an ideology. Instead, it warns his daughters about the heightened rhetoric that has taken over the United States and the civil discourse that has waned and deteriorated with each election cycle. Honestly, you don’t need to be a parent to read and learn something from this chapter.

Kepler’s book warns his daughters about boys. Boys are an interesting species to observe. I have a preteen boy myself, and I’m lucky if his responses are than a grunt or a one-word answer. The crew he hangs with is also something to observe. There is always a story to hear. The days lived and led by these young men are certainly entertaining.

All Parents have Been there

“Raising Tomorrow” will have you nodding more than once as you read. It has a lot of useful, anecdotal information that you can share with your family. Kepler is the father of two daughters, but there is plenty for parents of boys that is useful and helpful, and I’m not just taking about the chapter “On Boys”. Kepler’s life lessons learned at work, at home, and in the military have laid a foundation that prepares him for life every day.

Note to self: it’s important to have a Plan B.
 – “Raising Tomorrow”

Some days parenting are harder than others. There can be difficult situations and touchy conversations. As parents, we try to get out in front of these situations so a conversation isn’t more difficult or awkward that it might be. From school, to religion, to relationships, “Raising Tomorrow” makes great points and offers openings at various times to talk to your children, daughters and sons alike, about their lives and whatever challenges may appear on the paths they choose. It’s not always easy getting your kids to listen, but at least you can say you did what you could to help them on those paths.

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Parenting and Play: Exploring “The Boy, The Cube, and The Elf”

It’s not always easy keeping an eye on our children. Sometimes, our children will need to keep an eye on us. They need something, a ride a snack, or help with homework. When that happens, they will be around looking for us. Nico and Maddie are looking for Nico’s parents. We all hope they’re alright. A little adventure is fun, but an adventure spanning across galaxies can be a little more than what our heroes bargained for.

“The Boy, The Cube, and the Elf”

Some people call it procrastination. Some call it “Side Quests”. Whatever it is, there is usually something that prevents us from accomplishing something during our day. Luckily, it’s not every day we get sidetracked, and if we do get sidetracked, the interference we experience isn’t too difficult to overcome.

Daddies and mommies know it’s not easy navigating their way through life. On some days, something comes up. It can be an illness or another emergency that requires us to get our Miracles of Christ. It can be a trip to a store for a needed part of a project or something for dinner. There is something that comes up needing our attention and action.

Being a Parent

Part of being a parent means looking out for our children and making sure they’re alright. We take care of our children physically, emotionally, and psychologically. We provide food, shelter and clothing. We are responsible for their schooling, and we hope they are well mentally and psychologically.

On occasion, there is a turning of the tables. Sometimes it’s the children who take care of the their family instead of the parents. In “Home Alone”, a boy is tasked with protecting his family’s home against burglars. While this is a more amusing reversal of roles, there are times when children must assume caretaking roles for their family.

Brent Golembiewski

No parent wants their child to assume caretaking roles for their family. That’s not how it’s supposed to be. Brent Golembiewski writes about a boy who finds himself needing to find his missing parents in his book series “The Boy, The Cube, and The Elf”. Brent’s book follows Nico, a boy who finds out his parents are missing. He must travel the realms of outer space to find his parents. Are they even alive?

Nico, Maddie, and Adventures

One day, Nico finds a hole blasted through a wall of his home. This is a big enough problem if the home wasn’t in outer space where the environment isn’t exactly safe for humans without protective equipment and oxygen. Joining Nico is an alien named Maddie. Maddie knows Nico’s father but won’t tell him how. This is just one of the things about her that annoys Nico throughout the story.

The human and alien must put their differences and annoyances aside and work together. There is a giant enemy named Marduk. Marduk might know why Nico’s father is missing. He could even be the reason his father is missing. Together with a group of aliens, Nico and Maddie must face Marduk and deal with an angry dragon as they speed across the universe to find out what happened to Nico’s father.

Side Quests get in the Way

Brent’s book is about a boy who needs to help his father. Usually, it’s the parents who are taking care of (and sometimes searching for) the children. Our Miracles of Christ require a lot of care and patience. When school is out, The Boy is out and about with the Fruit Loops. Who knows what they’re up to? Chances are they start off doing one thing, then they’re off on another adventure. Much like Nico and Maddie.

Nico is off to find where his parents are, but events in outer space will take them on a side quest. This other quest might need to be done so they can figure out a part of their other mission, or it’s the result of space monsters attacking our heroes or their ship. The ship, by the way, doesn’t seem good enough for Maddie, but it is a good ship, and it just might need a little TLC, which Nico is happy to provide. Maddie isn’t so convinced about “The Silent Sprite”, but she’s a good ship, and Nico is confident in her capabilities.

It’s not always easy keeping an eye on our children. Sometimes, our children will need to keep an eye on us. They need something, a ride a snack, or help with homework. When that happens, they will be around looking for us. Nico and Maddie are looking for Nico’s parents. We all hope they’re alright. A little adventure is fun, but an adventure spanning across galaxies can be a little more than what our heroes bargained for.

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“Pro Gamers Guide to Healthy Habits” Teaches True Success

His book features a gamer name Brian who is committed to being, “the greatest gamer in the entire world.” Unfortunately, Brian isn’t very good at gaming, so he is prepared to practice all day and into the night to sharpen his skills and achieve his goal. As a result, he sleeps too late and misses half the day. In order to get energy, he eats candy and energy drinks. The sustenance is loaded with sugar. It gives him bursts of energy, but he soon crashes and he feels worse than he did before he ingested all of the sugar.

I grew up with video games and spent afternoons, evenings, holidays and vacations playing some form of them. This experience with video games came in handy when I worked retail. People came in looking for a console or a game to buy as a gift, and I was able to help them with their purchases.

Today, there are a lot more options for kids than there were when friends and I were running and jumping for high scores, but that was okay. The games we had were enough for our delusions of grandeur. Also, a special thank you to the good people at Nintendo for allowing us to download these games onto Nintendo Switch. Replaying these games are a great way to spend some time when I need to escape my Miracles of Christ.

Video Games are Fun

Video games are fun, but it’s important to keep everything in moderation. Too much of a good thing, and it stops being a good thing. Video games are a great example of that. While it’s great to unwind and decompress with a little of your favorite console, it’s important to make sure it doesn’t take up your whole day, or your whole life.

If you’re a parent, you already know this, and it’s very possible you have spoken to your child about this more than once. Video games are fun, but there are other ways of having fun, and trying those other ways can help you child develop healthy habits.

Brian Saviano knows what you already know, but your children haven’t quite learned and understood yet. Gaming can be fun, but it’s also important to do other things in your life. It’s important to have a social life outside of electronics and outside of your home. Social interactions are important.

Brian’s Obsession with Gaming

Photo: progamersguide.com

Brian has written “Pro Gamers Guide to Healthy Habits”. His book features a gamer name Brian who is committed to being, “the greatest gamer in the entire world.” Unfortunately, Brian isn’t very good at gaming, so he is prepared to practice all day and into the night to sharpen his skills and achieve his goal. As a result, he sleeps too late and misses half the day. In order to get energy, he eats candy and energy drinks. The sustenance is loaded with sugar. It gives him bursts of energy, but he soon crashes and he feels worse than he did before he ingested all of the sugar.

He feels sick when he crashes. Too much sugar is bad for you. Brian’s pet parrot, Pauly, reminds him how much sugar was in the candy he ate. No wonder Brian felt sick.

Brian is sick from the sugar he ate, and he feels bad because he regrets sleeping late and missing half the day. He really wanted to be a good gamer, but it’s not worth it if this is how he’s going to feel. Brian needs to make changes to his lifestyle.

Healthy Habits are Important for Kids

Gaming is fun, but it’s not fun if you’re in front of a screen all day. It’s not fun if you’re eating junk food the whole time. Spending your day on a couch isn’t healthy. For kids today, there are a lot of options when it comes to gaming and screens. These make it easy to lose track of time. As parents, we need to make sure there are other things to balance that out. Part of our jobs as moms and dads is to keep our children healthy. This includes monitoring screen time and making sure they get plenty of exercise.

If your child is spending too much time being sedentary, “Pro Gamers Guide” is a great read for them. It will explain why it isn’t a good idea for them to be on their rear ends all day. It will also illustrate the negatives of not being active and how much they will like being on their feet and going outside to interact with other human beings. There’s nothing wrong with gaming. It’s a lot of fun, but there are other ways of having fun. Brian’s book shows you those ways and how your children can accomplish them.

“Pete’s Beat” Teaches Confidence through Music and Practice

Pete loves music. He loves playing drums. Luckily, he had enough encouragement to continuing practicing his drumming from someone who saw his talent and potential. It’s important to help kids when they are practicing and ensuring they don’t get discouraged. It could be easy to feel frustrated with something and walk away from it permanently. Whatever it is my children are working on, music, homework, putting together an arts and crafts project, I try to encourage them as much as I can. If they are discouraged or frustrated, I have them take a break and rest their brains before going back to it for another try.

Photo: Red Barn Publishing

Some people try to find their rhythm when it comes to music. Others try to find their rhythm in the grand scheme of things. Some feel they need to fit in, and if they do, they’ll be able to find their rhythm. It’s common, especially with kids. No one wants to feel left out. It’s not always easy finding your way. Along the course of life, people will try things. It could be literature, art, music, cooking. People will try different things or new hobbies. It’s a great way to let out your creativity. Plus, it gives you the chance to try something new, and you can meet new people.

There are plenty of things that can hold people back when it comes to trying things. One of the biggest things holding people back is the fear of failing when they try something. Trying and practicing is how people get better at things, but it can take a while to get good at something. Sometimes, the biggest thing that is holding you back is YOU.

Read “Pete’s Beat”

Your child can learn a lesson from Pete when it comes to trusting yourself and your talents. Pete is a young drummer and the main character in Matt Robinson’s “Pete’s Beat”. The book is illustrated by Scott Hubeny.

Pete is an aspiring musician who is always practicing his drumming technique. He is practicing at school using pencils, at the dinner table using his fork and knife. He’ll practice on his bed using a pillow for his drum, practicing away using his bare hands.

“By the end of the month, Pete had tried so many instruments that he was not sure which to play next. All he knew was that he had yet to find his own beat.”

-“Pete’s Beat”

People notice Pete’s work and encourage him to practice and play more. Pete lacks the confidence to take further steps with his playing. It’s a common thing with children and adults alike: Their lack of confidence holds them back. They don’t think they’re good enough, so they stop practicing, and they are stuck in that rut.

Always Encourage your Children

Between sports, academics, and music, I try to encourage my children to do their best. Practicing is how you get better. It’s not just with my own children, but also the children I coached in sports. Work on your game, your art. Practice. Continue to study your niche and sharpen your skills.

Circle Man (That’s his name) notices Pete’s talent and he encourages him to be confident in what he has and share his skill with the listening world. It’s not always an easy thing to do, but sometimes the only thing holding you back is you yourself.

The book talks about people being brave enough to try, confident enough to out themselves out there, and it also talks about a love for music. I love music. I’m not talented in the musical instrument category, but my children are. The Boy is a trombone player. The Oppressed played a tuba. When both Miracles of Christ were in elementary school, they played recorders. I knew a little about recorders thanks to “The Legend of Zelda”.

Lessons in Music and Life

“Everyone can play. All you need to do is find your own beat!” – Circle Man

Pete loves music. He loves playing drums. Luckily, he had enough encouragement to continuing practicing his drumming from someone who saw his talent and potential. It’s important to help kids when they are practicing and ensuring they don’t get discouraged. It could be easy to feel frustrated with something and walk away from it permanently. Whatever it is my children are working on, music, homework, putting together an arts and crafts project, I try to encourage them as much as I can. If they are discouraged or frustrated, I have them take a break and rest their brains before going back to it for another try.

In addition to the story, “Pete’s Beat” also has a glossary introducing music novices to the key terms in the book. There are also puzzles to do to help the reader learn more about instruments mentioned in the book and other instruments in the world of music. Not only does the book show what a little encouragement and practice can do, the puzzles make for a little break from practice.

“The Hyena who Laughed so Hard” by James Croft

A lot of people like to laugh. Some people need to laugh after a tough day at work or school. Some people, like the elephant, are grumpy and don’t want to laugh. Laughing is good for you. It makes you feel better. The monkey had an idea to see who could make people laugh the most. What could be better than to find out the funniest thing people can do? And what was it that made the hyena laugh his pants off? I’ll give you a hint: There’s an elephant sleeping under the tree.

Dads know that their humor isn’t always appreciated by their children. Sometimes their best jokes can fall victim to indifference. It’s a shame, really because I’ve told some great stories and jokes, but they only get eye rolls from my miracles of Christ.

Honestly, it was easier when the cherubs were younger. You find a Looney Tunes cartoon, and you and your child can sit back and enjoy yourselves for a little bit. Sometimes you can find a movie everyone can enjoy. The funny movies will make you laugh, and that’s why I like them so much.

Our pets can make us laugh. When our four-legged friends are little, they need a little time to adjust to their new surroundings. Kitty was relegated to a room on the first floor. She was a little thing and our house was big. We didn’t want her to get overwhelmed or lost. That would be bad. As she got older, we let her explore a little more and more. Now, she is all grown up and she patrols the home and the yard making sure the bipeds of our home are safe. Sometimes, I like to aim a laser pointer at the floor and watch her try to move her paws as fast as she can and catch the dot. She’ll look under her paw to see if the dot is there. It’s not. It’s next to her moving across the room again. This amuses me. Simple pleasures for simple minds.

Children can also make you laugh. It can be something they did or something they said or the way they used to say something. Sometimes they can tell you a story and that will make you laugh.

“The Hyena who Laughed so Hard his Pants Fell off”

“The Hyena who Laughed so Hard…”

You hear a lot about hyenas and how much they like to laugh. James Croft has written a book about a hyena spending a day on the savannah with his friends. His book, “The Hyena who Laughed so Hard his Pants fell off” tells the story of a hyena, a monkey, and a stork. Three friends who decide to have a contest to see who can make everyone laugh the hardest.

Everyone thinks this is a great idea. Everyone, that is, except for a grumpy elephant who just wants to rest under a tree. The antics of the other three animals make everyone laugh except for the elephant. He gives the other animals a piece of his mind. The monkey, hyena, and stork don’t understand what the problem is. They are laughing and having a good time on a hot day in the savannah. What could the problem possibly be?

What made the hyena laugh his pants off? Here’s a hint: There’s an elephant sleeping under the tree.

A lot of people like to laugh. Some people need to laugh after a tough day at work or school. Some people, like the elephant, are grumpy and don’t want to laugh. Laughing is good for you. It makes you feel better. The monkey had an idea to see who could make

people laugh the most. What could be better than to find out the funniest thing people can do? And what was it that made the hyena laugh his pants off? I’ll give you a hint: There’s an elephant sleeping under the tree.

Croft wrote this book to offer an exploration into friendship and humor. It’s not a comfortable day in the savannah, but three friends still find a way to enjoy themselves and have a good time.

Dad Jokes

“I think the real reason is they don’t want to admit my superior humor and entertaining skills.”

We’ve all heard about “Dad Jokes” and how they sometimes make Dad laugh and nobody else. I like to tell these jokes because I love the groans and eyerolls the Miracles of Christ give when they hear them. It annoys the children, but I think the real reason is they don’t want to admit my superior humor and entertaining skills.

Making laugh is fun. It’s something I enjoy doing. This book is a fun book to read with your children because it shows that any time of any day can be fun. And if you have a day where you don’t feel like laughing, you just might laugh anyway. Laughing is fun and it makes your day easier. The hyena, the monkey, and the stork understand this. Read this book and your child can understand it too.

There are all kinds of things that can make us laugh. Movies make me laugh. The Three Stooges make me laugh. Cartoons make me laugh. I loved watching “The Animaniacs” when I was a teenager. Your children will find different things that will entertain them, and these things will change as they get older. Sometimes, there will be one or two things that will stay with them their whole life. When I took The Boy to school, he and I would watch Heckle and Jeckle or Deputy Dawg until it was time for school. He has since moved on to watching amine. Oh well.

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“Somewhere Over the Rainforest” by Andrew Keith Slayton

When I was younger, people asked if I had pets. I told them I had a brother and a sister. If you ever met them, you wouldn’t say I was lying. I wanted a dog for a long time. That desire was tempered a bit when I was attacked by a dog.

Wife and I had a dog when we first moved into our house. The dog had behavioral issues, and we were expecting our first child at the time. This resulted in the difficult decision to give up the dog. We weren’t sure our new baby would be safe. Another dog would come to join our family, but I’m getting ahead of myself.

The Boy told us he would like a cat. He was fond of them when he was a smaller lad. We lived with our neighbor for a time when our house was being renovated. Much to his joy and pleasure, our neighbor had two cats. The more playful of the two was named Vero, and The Boy loved playing with her.

Renovations were complete at our house, and we were able to move back home. Not long after moving back in, we celebrated The Boy’s birthday. On this particular occasion, he received cat food and kitty litter for his birthday. He was puzzled about the gifts, and it took him a while to realized what said gifts were going to be put towards. His face lit up when he was told we were getting a cat. That was when Kitty joined our family.

I’ve written about kitty a few times. Same for doggie. Lovie found a post online for Doggie during Coronapalooza. She convinced the family to get her. We sat in a room, all of us wearing masks, and became acquainted with what would become the latest four-legged addition to our family.

She isn’t a bad dog; she just needed to be reminded that the bipeds called the shots at this house. I would come downstairs in the morning, and she would jump off the couch. She knows the couch is off-limits, and I would hear her scurry when I made my way downstairs.

There are animal people, and there are people who aren’t animal people. Either way is fine, and people on both sides have their reasons.

Adventures in the Rainforest

Photo: Andrew Keith Slayton

I was introduced to a book about animals. The book, “Somewhere Over the Rainforest” by Andrew Keith Slayton, follows a boy named Oliver who can communicate with animals like Jasper, a raven. This gift comes in handy when he befriends a stray dog named Scratch. The two immediately become best friends and go everywhere and do everything together.

“You know what they remind me of? Us! They make me think of how we, too, are all different from one another – yet we all get along famously without so much as a fight or argument amongst ourselves, like so many animals do.”
– Oliver Wendell Applegate

Animals who live in the rainforest are also able to communicate with Oliver. This comes in handy when animals are captured for a zoo owned by Barnaby Vandenburg, a ruthless tycoon who has plans for a zoo holding rare animals from rainforest. Vandenburg hopes the rare and little-known animals will be enough of a draw to lure paying customers to a one-of-a-kind zoo he is building. The animals are captured by poachers who hold them until the animal’s holding areas are complete.

Scratch learns of the captured animals and breaks them out of the holding area. Vandenburg finds out about the dog and is furious. He convinces the local police to take Scratch and punish him for breaking and trespassing on private property. Oliver’s father, Grayson, does all he can for Scratch, but his checkered past and questionable business practices won’t make that easy, and Vandenburg knows it.

Photo: Andrew Keith Slayton

Pets Basic Needs

Taking care of animals isn’t an easy job. Dogs need to be let out or walked when nature calls. Animals need to be fed. This requires time and money. It would be easy if we could communicate them in a way they could speak to up and we would understand them. Unfortunately, we all don’t have Oliver’s gift, so we need to rely on other methods of communication, like Doggie ringing a bell hanging on the door to tell us she needs to go outside and do her business.

Photo: Andrew Keith Slayton

Kitty has a box for that. I clean the box out every week. She’s grateful for that. She doesn’t specifically say so, but she and I are so close I know she is. Again, this requires a little extra effort on the humans’ part, but it’s a necessary one when you’re taking care of pets and trying to keep the house clean and tidy.

Pets need food, exercise, companionship. Having a pet requires a lot of work and effort. Walking Doggie is something I like to do because it gets me out and exercising. It’s also good for the dog.

“All of you are our planet’s future. You must remember, your future depends on what you do today for tomorrow.”
– Chief Kayakoma

Andrew’s book teaches us a lot about the rainforest and how we can take care of the world we live in. He also talks about animals and how we can help them. There are a lot of animals who eat bugs and other pests. Food we need can grow in forests or on farms. It’s important that we keep air and water clean. “Somewhere Over the Rainforest” tells the story of a boy who is faced with saving himself and his friends from tight squeezes. Along the way, he learns from animals and native tribes how the environment and people work together for everyone’s benefit. It’s a book you or your child will enjoy reading. Not only are there exciting chapters inside, but it will teach you about the rainforest and the benefits it has for everyone with two or four legs.

Photo: Andrew Keith Slayton

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